I have had this post on my mind for several days and it looks like the timing could not have been better. If you have been keeping up with the news then you have probably heard about the conflict involving a recent policy change implemented by Marissa Mayer, CEO of Yahoo. Yahoo will no longer allow their employees to telecommute. The change has come as a shock to many and has caused an uproar among working parents.
I thoroughly enjoy the option of telecommuting that my husband has through his company. We can spend more time together as a family several days a week when my husband cuts out his 2 hour commute. Anyway, off topic...
I feel that all mothers should have the opportunity to be available to their children regardless of work schedules and financial needs. I am fortunate enough that my husband is able to provide our family with a comfortable life thereby affording me the privilege of staying home to raise our daughter.
While I do not have to work, I choose to. I am a freelance writer, author, blogger, public speaker, and occasional daycare provider. While the money I make from these endeavors is pennies compared to the salary I was making at my office job, I would not change it for the world! I work as much or as little as I want to and am able to satisfy my need for personal fulfillment and contribute (however slightly) to family expenses. Most importantly however, I am able to be here for my daughter every second of the day.
I chose to pursue a line of work that not only was in line with my interests, but that also allowed me the opportunity to put my family first. I make no excuses for my very "attached" parenting style. My daughter comes with me everywhere. If I have a meeting my daughter comes with me. If I have an interview, it is conducted with my daughter. I encourage all women to blow the doors of conventionality wide open! We don't have to be just a working mom, or just a stay at home mom, we can do AND excel at both.
Mother's should be encouraged to be available for their children and not condemned for doing so. They should not feel pressured by their place of employment to put their job before their families.
Every day is bring your baby to work day with me! There are countless ways that we as mother's can provide for our families monetarily while also being available to them emotionally and physically.
There is nothing wrong with mother's working outside of the home but unfortunately some women fail to realize that there are other options if they would rather be home with their children and families.
Want to hear more on this topic? Come visit me at this year's 12th annual CCBC Women's Expo on March 16th.
Have a great day!


I agree with this whole heartedly. I nannied for a family for over a year and it showed me that, without a doubt, I am going to be a stay at home mom or work a job that I can have my kid with me. That's totally more important to me than money!
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely! You can't get these years back
DeleteGreat post Jillian. I think it's really important that we find a way to make that happen in the US. I am surprised that Yahoo would make that decision. Sad really. I have been very lucky to stay home with my kids. I'm not going to say that it has been easy. Financially it is extremely hard for us at times. But my kids are my first ministry... If I am not there to disciple them what good is anything else I do? Thanks Jillian for the mom- encouragement today!
ReplyDeleteAmen Kari!It truly is sad when places of employment make motherhood more difficult than it already is.
DeleteI am fortunate that I work for a family friendly company. I get one day a month to telecommute but if I ever need to leave early or stay home with Hunter because he's sick (which I had to do twice in the past week) I can work from home. I wish I could work from home more often but I know I have it better than a lot of women so I'm grateful for that.
ReplyDeleteThat is so great that your company understand that family matters need attention too! Children take precedence.
DeletePlus it is so much more productive for employees to have the option to telecommute than just have to take a sick day right?
You know that I love what I do because I have the freedom to bring Emma with me to all of my appointments. Mary Kay allows me the opportunity to make my job work with my life: mom and wife first. Unlike some women that are happy and fulfilled working part time or just staying home I have goals in my career path...big goals. Not that I am any better than a stay at home mom or part timer, I just feel called to share this opportunity to work a business that brings me so much joy! I really do love my job! This weekend has shown me one area where we are lacking: childcare when needed. Mary Kay provides exceptional career training at a weekly Success meeting and annually at our Career Conference. They do not however offer any on site child care. I hate the idea of leaving Emma for 10 hours! If she were on site then I could check on her. Take her to lunch with me. I am sure that I am not the only mom that feels this way. I want to do something about it. Write the company? Start a petition? What do you think?
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